that's good lor.
unfortunately not everyone thinks like that. e.g. I know of one
case, got together with this useless guy that is quite horrible,
most of her friends were against it, in the end still married him,
had a kid, gave him her life savings, the guy was not only useless
but cheated on her as well and ended up in divorce. she is now
struggling to support herself and her kid. 
make stupid decision for herself, now she and her kid are both
suffering... it's just not worth it... sometimes, just sometimes we
need to stop and listen...
i'm so glad my factory won't get into operation...
